Can Household Clutter Be The Cause of My Husband's Separation?

The percentage of divorce are sky rocketing these days and there are only a few people who can say that they have survived their marriage through thick and thin, in sickness and in health. Only a few people are really solid to the vow they made when they said I do.    

So what are the reasons why couple separate? Actually there are various reasons. It could be money, personalities clashing, infidelity, miscommunication, addictions and even sex. There are many reasons why two people cannot agree with one idea or let alone share ideas to make the marriage work. Now if you are asking, what if your husband can’t deal with household clutter? Will it be the cause of him leaving? If you ask me, it’s a yes and a no.

How can household clutter be the reason of your separation? Take it this way, not all people have the same preferences. If your husband likes a clean, clutter free house and you are the type who seldom cleans, most likely your husband may not be able to take it on the long run. Maybe he has given you hints that he doesn’t like clutter? Remember men by nature are not that verbal compared to women so if you noticed that he likes to keep things neat and clean then probably he doesn’t like clutter in the first place. So if you have noticed all the hints that say he doesn’t like clutter, then probably it is time that you do some household cleaning.

Now you may be wondering, how can clutter NOT be the reason of your husband fleeing? Simple really, if your husband married you because he truly loves you then he will stay with you through thick and thin, clean or cluttered house. If your husband really loves you then he will help you through it and yes, he will stay.

Clutter does not grow overnight. It does not come from one reason alone too. There are deeper issues why clutter is hard to let go. There is always an underlying reason why you hold on to this things in the first place so if your husband can see pass the clutter and see the devastating emotional state you are going through then there is no fear of separation. It isn’t always easy for both people who are married to go through this but if your husband is willing to help you with it then he will help you take away the clutter in your life as well as in your marriage. After all, marriage is something that two people should work together in order for it to work.

In conclusion, clutter is not a good thing to have in your life. It can ruin you and the relationships you have with people around you. So if you really want a major change and clean up with your life and marriage then you can choose to be surrounded by clutter or break free from it. Options will always be there and solutions are just waiting for you. All you have to do is embrace it, live a clutter free life and happy marriage.